petty little stressors

1. Buying bedsheets, bedlinen, duvet - it's a whole new world for me.  what is this linen count?  i know that more linen count = warmer, but how much warmer? what cover is considered good quality? how do i know if this huge sheet will make our room look better or cozier or worse?  i need an interior designer.  i want to purchase a nice duvet for our comforter, but i have NO idea what the size is...i am just going to assume that it is a king sized comforter..........................MUST USE THIS OPPORTUNITY OF 50% OFF SALE FROM MACYS OR ELSE I WILL HAVE TO WAIT ANOTHER TWO MONTHS FOR AN UPCOMING SALE, JUST BUY.

2. Buy dinnerware - omigoodness, where to start?  i just want something simple and white, but why are there so many different kinds???  i have to start thinking if the shape will be ergonomic when washing dishes (like little studs on the plate will have food stuck on it more easily).  my mom says "pick the one that will make the food look tasty" - but it's hard to tell when you have a white circle dish vs. a white circle dish with a mild bordering bump...do borders around dishes make it look tastier?  what about the one with butterflies and bugs on it?  how is that supposed to make a dish look tastier?  prettier maybe...tastier?  i would be distracted i think...am i going in the right direction with deciding which dish design to get?  GUHHH TOO MANY CHOICES.  LORD, I NEED THE GIFT OF HOMEMAKING DISCERNMENT.

3. Deciding what to make for dinner - cooking aint no problem for me, in fact, i enjoy it.  the least favorite part of my day is dishwashing.  don't get me wrong, my husband does a lot of dishwashing for me, but it is crunch time for him and i feel like it would be nice if i did it instead so he would have the 15 minutes to resting or studying.  but anyway, deciding what to make for dinner or for my husband's lunch is not an easy task.  so many factors come in: what do we have in the refrigerator, should we eat this again?  should i learn something new?  do i have the ingredients?  do i walk to trader joes and save money?  or do i walk to rittenhouse market and save time?  is there enough protein in today's meal or vegetables?  if i try something new, will it taste good?  BLAH!

4. Money when grocery shopping - okay, i admit, i used to be one of those people who NEVER looked at price tags or compared prices.  if i wanted something, i would just get it and enjoy it.  i remember my friends from optometry school, whenever we carpooled to get groceries together, they would have this horrified look on their faces when i would just throw things in the cart and not know the prices.  nowadays, i am comparing prices of canned chilis.  why is it so much more expensive at this marketplace vs. the other grocery store, but the price on steak is the other way around?

5. Deciding to go outside - wash my face, brush my teeth, apply make up, get ready.  i need to work out. i should get fresh air. i can discover something new.  vs. it is so damn cold outside and it is so warm at home.................HOME IT IS.

6. I get so easily distracted nowadays.  Here is a typical day:
   I need to study (starts studying)
   but it would be so nice if I could study in comfy clothes (looks through drawers)
   Hmm...looks like I need to do laundry (takes out laundry towards the kitchen)
   Ooo, I need to do the dishes (starts doing dishes)
   Oh but I need to prep for dinner (stops dishwashing and looks through refrigerator)
   Yumm, this yogurt is so good (starts eating yogurt)
   I wonder what is on tv while I finish this yogurt (turns on console and watches a drama for 10 minutes)
   Ooo the actress has such nice skin, I should work out (goes back into room and looks up workout classes)
    I wonder where this gym is at (proceed to look at GoogleMaps)
    Man, i feel like traveling, how far is Iceland from here (.....THIS GOES ON FOREVER).
THEN I REALIZE I HAVEN'T DONE $HIT until my husband calls me and tells me he is on his way home.  TIME TO MAKE DINNER!  (ooo but the laundry is out here, I should do laundry...)
YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS NEXT.

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